Self-care gifts for women

Updated October 2026

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These are self-care gifts for an ordinary Tuesday. Most are weighted pillows filled with organic flaxseed and organic lavender, made to rest on her for a few quiet minutes, warm from the microwave or cool from the freezer. Each pillow is made by hand, and a portion of every sale supports Laura’s House, an Orange County domestic violence resource center.

Self-care gifts she will use

Start with a heart. Our core heart eye pillows are about 7 x 6 in (18 x 15 cm) and hold about 5.9 ounces of organic flaxseed and organic lavender, so they rest over her eyes with a gentle, even weight. Earth is hand-dyed, so no two are quite the same. The Comfort Set adds a crescent pillow for the belly or back.

Relaxing gifts for stressed women

No gift fixes a hard week. What a weighted eye pillow can give her is ten minutes lying down with the lights off and a little weight over her eyes, which is sometimes the most anyone can offer. Herringbone and Watercolor are the quiet ones. If she is not sleeping well, see gifts for someone who can’t sleep; for a slower afternoon, spa gifts for an at-home spa day.

Birthday gifts for women

A birthday gift should still be in use a month later. Rainbow Tartan for the friend who likes colour, Earth for the one who likes things made by hand, the Comfort Set for a birthday in a hard year, and a gift card when you would rather she chose. Shopping for your mom? See birthday gifts for mom.

Unique gifts for women

Earth is hand-dyed in India and filled and finished by hand in Southern California, so no two are quite the same. Arched Heart is a print of soft brown rainbow arches, warm and a little unexpected. Herringbone looks like a good wool coat. For the person who already owns everything, see gifts for someone who has everything.

Stocking stuffers for women

A heart eye pillow is about 7 x 6 in (18 x 15 cm): small enough for a stocking, heavy enough that she notices it in her hand. Pick the pattern that looks like her. Two of them come to more than $50, so they ship free.

Gifts under $50

Every pillow in this row costs less than $50 on its own, and the gift card starts at $25. Add a second pillow and the shipping is free.

Gifts for her: wife, girlfriend, sister, best friend

For your wife. The Comfort Set: a heart eye pillow and a crescent pillow, for the evening she finally sits down. One can be warm on her back while the other is cool over her eyes.

For your girlfriend. The Rainbow Tartan heart. A heart she will use, not one she has to find a shelf for.

For your sister. Earth, dyed by hand, so no two are quite the same.

For your best friend. Black Gingham, the one that goes with everything. More ideas in our Galentine’s gift guide.

Secret Santa and coworker gifts

A heart eye pillow is easy to wrap and easy to like, and the gift card starts at $25. For the people who look after everyone else at work, see gifts for nurses, gifts for caregivers and teacher gifts. Buying for a whole team or for clients? Write to us about a larger order.

Care packages for a hard time

When someone is grieving, recovering or simply worn out, a gift should ask nothing of her. Pair a weighted eye pillow with a handwritten note. For a long recovery, the Comfort Set puts warmth on the belly or back and quiet over the eyes. More in gifts for someone going through a hard time, sympathy gift ideas and surgery recovery gift ideas.

Last-minute gifts

A stillnus gift card arrives by email, so it is never late. She chooses her own pattern.

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Giving back. A portion of every sale supports Laura’s House, which runs a 24-hour hotline and programs for survivors of domestic violence in Orange County. Read about our impact or more gifts that give back.

Returns. Unused items in their original packaging can be returned within 30 days; gift cards are not returnable. Our returns policy.